Sunday, 24 October 2021

What Kind Of People I Like & What Kind of People I Avoid

 I am naturally attracted to hardworking people

I like people who treat other people with respect

I like People who are not on a Power Trip

I am attracted by people who are successful - Success attracts me

I like people who have a Goal in their life

I like people who are driven

I like People who are Passionate - Regardless of whatever your profession might be

I like people who are not pretentious

I like people who are warm hearted

I like simple people with humble needs

I like my sambar-rice and fryums - I can easily fit into Oberoi as I equally love having sambar-dipped Idly at Udupi hotel

Simplicity attracts me

I like people who have decency to give a bare minimum respect and reciprocate with a "Thank You" and not take everyone for granted

I like those Rs.200 earrings from pavements, I like those nukkad ke novelty stores to buy bindi/bangles, than shopping at Malls

I like a warm home filled with love, care and respect for each other rather than a home-decor filled with antiques, a soul-less house

I believe in the power of relationships - Clients/Partners/Friends/Family - I try my level best to keep my relationships - And when I turn my back it's only because I have nothing left in me to give anymore and I am truly tired of trying

I like people who are really invested in others

I am inclined to spirituality - To some extent our rituals - Well, as a working mum I try to fit in as many rituals I can while running the home-ship

I like people with a Zest for living - You know those videos / Reels on Instagram that you are naturally drawn to? An 80 year old dancing salsa, an old couple dancing in the rain, walking barefoot in the woods, cut-down the noise and tune-into those 90s music - you know because these are real people ,real feelings, and that's why these get through to you

Don'ts

I don't like people who just live and have no dreams, no goals

I don't like people who judge everything with money - "I have an iphone and it's so important that I write about it in my Bio"

I don't like people who are lazy - With no sense of purpose in life

I don't like people with no ambition

I don't like people who steal other's people's credit

I don't like people who value money and position above all

I don't like Flamboyant

I don't believe in belittling someone to make yourself look good - Eventually you will fall face down

I don't like Flattery

I don't like Fake, I don't know about you but if I don't like a person, I won't even bother with a "Hi"

Vibe With Positivity

 Itna Muskurao ki Zindagi bhi thak-haar kar tumhaare saath muskuraane ke liye majboor hojaye..

Late Post - Letting Go

 On this auspicious ocassion of Navratri, I am strongly feeling this, so much so that I had to pen down my thoughts..

I am feeling that I am myself again after a really long time..The real me - The real true-self - The one who can burst into a random song, insanely happy, dancing in my room, recording songs, penning down my thoughts, learning something new on Salesforce, reading a book, back on my fitness track, I feel closer to God, there is clarity in my thoughts, and finally letting go.....

All those who hurt me, there must be a reason you did what you did - I forgive you, I love you, God Bless you,

I let go of all my negative thoughts

I accept people with open arms, the way they are

I will not judge people and I hope that you too will accept me, may I add, with all my flaws : )

Life is too short to hold grudges

I do not hate anyone neither do I despise anyone

I am not envious of anyone

I know what is mine will come to me..eventually....when the time is right...

If you like someone, go ahead and express your feelings, the worst thing is they could say is No, and that's perfectly alright..Because ..Kisko pata, Kal ho na ho...the song seemed so right in between these lines...haha

...and I know you are beginning to think is she turning into Mother Theresa...no, I am not..I'm just my old self again..and it's such a relief of having found yourself again...

I know I am not beautiful

I may not even be someone with high intellect

But you know I am me, and I like being me

But I inherit my father's big big big heart, ....a happy heart

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HUPB_X2qE4I

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HUPB_X2qE4I

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6AIa3kdKFhg
 

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